The bride quarreled with her bridesmaids over the list of rules for wedding guests
The bride made a list of rules for wedding guests and had a falling out with bridesmaids. She spoke about this in a post on Reddit.
The girl said that she plans to get married in July 2022. She chose her sister as a witness and asked her to create a chat for bridesmaids in order to send rules to it to prepare for the ceremony.
Among other things, the bride offered the girls several dress options to choose from and added that she would be grateful if they lost weight. However, she stressed that she does not insist on diets. In addition, the bridesmaids had to cover travel and hotel expenses. They were also invited to the bachelorette party, provided that each would pay for herself.
For some girls, the offered dresses and the hotel seemed too expensive, but the bride refused to make concessions. She explained that it was important for her that all the guests were in one place, and she could communicate with each of them at any time. Then several girlfriends left the chat and refused to participate in the preparations for the wedding.
“The others consoled me and said that those who refused to participate should not be considered real friends,” the bride said in a post on Reddit. – And my sister advised not to pay attention to them and move on. But I am very offended that my wedding party started with a drama because of my requests. ” After that, she asked her readers if they believed that she did the right thing.
The post received more than three thousand comments, and almost all were in defense of offended bridesmaids. “I hope she loses all her friends, because her requests are just absurd!” – wrote the author of one of them. Another added: “I would have put on weight on purpose before the wedding to annoy the bride.”
Earlier it was reported that BuzzFeed asked bridesmaids about the strange things they were asked to do for the wedding, and published a selection of 16 the most interesting stories. The survey participants spoke about requests to change their appearance and take out a loan.