“Is there my fault?” The confession of the founder of the community inslow
When Alan launched a website for single people trying to find love, she could not imagine that he will grow into a community who hate women, and that in the end all this will lead to the death of several people in her hometown.
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When Alan launched a website for single people trying to find love, she could not imagine that he will grow into a community who hate women, and that in the end all this will lead to the death of several people in her hometown.
Now Alan starts all over again trying to find new ways of solving the same problem.
Talked with her leading BBC radio 5 live’s Anna foster.
In 1997, yet there was no “Facebook” or “Instagram” or “Tinder”. Even before the advent of MySpace was still six years old.
Alan, who does not want to disclose their name, had just started Dating, she was 20 or more.
“I have all this began, I was thinking: “Maybe that comes in late, like me.”
I noticed that people immediately start making stupid jokes about the “lonely virgin” and people who were not dated when they were teenagers.Alan
She lived in Toronto, Canada, where he opened his own website “Project involuntary virginity” for those who could not tie a romantic relationship.
Your website is called a place of companionship where she placed the various articles and kept a list of subscribers.
The website has become a forum for men and women who wanted to talk about loneliness and to openly reflect on why they did not get to see anyone.
“There’s probably prisutstvie a bit of anger, and some men don’t quite understand that every woman is a special person. But overall, it was a place where you could find support,” says Alan.
One couple who met on the site, even got married.
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“It definitely wasn’t a group of guys vinisha women for all their problems. This sad phenomenon peculiar to our day. A lot has changed over the last 20 years,” she continues.
At first, Alan has reduced the term involuntarily celibate (“involuntary virgin”) to short “invcel”. Then someone suggested that “incel” (“Insel”) is a more convenient option.